I JUST read this before you posted it, and it is a fantastic article, and so so so true. Being the spouse that always does the cleaning, and having a spouse that sees nothing wrong with leaving his dirty socks all over our bedroom...I am certain our marriage would benefit from him doing his fair share. It is the source of much of our disagreements...he does try harder now, so I am appreciative and willing to work with him on it. But boy...could you put your dishes in the sink PLEASE...then WASH THEM!

Connect the dots...la la la la!

Me and Trell are good with the chores (though I am sure he thinks he does more than me...and he might...actually he probably does...OK, so he does)but the part that got me in the article was placing the emphasis on x-rated fantasies over family. I love Trell, I find him extremely attractive, but darn it, sometimes I am just tired. GEEZ!